I’m sure many women have heard of the G-spot.
You probably get a general idea of what it feels like to be orgasm from it……, which is some kind of amazing sexual area that allows you to reach an unusual orgasm.
However, it is difficult to get to the bottom of what the G-spot is and how it can make you feel good …….
The G-spot is truly a special sexual zone, but it needs to be “developed” in order to get the pleasure The G-spot is also a bit tricky, as it is the only place in the world where you can reach orgasm.
To begin with, the G-spot is an enigmatic sexual zone, and there is still no established way to reliably reach orgasm in the G-spot.
However, if you develop the G-spot with a few pointers, your chances of being able to come in the G-spot will be higher, and the more you develop the G-spot, the easier it will be to reach climax during penetration during live sex.
If this happens, your partner will be very happy with you. So, this article will explain the details of the G-spot and how to develop it in a simple way.
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What is the G-spot?
The G-spot is the “Gräfenberg spot”, a term referring to the sexual area in the vagina of a woman.
The G-spot is thought to be a sexual zone that, when stimulated, causes intense sexual arousal and pleasure, leading to orgasm.
It is located at the point of entry and can be stimulated by the insertion of a finger, penis, or sex toy.
However, the existence of the G-spot itself is still unproven and there are only a few theories.
Therefore, the definition, structure, and definite location of the G-spot are still being debated to this day.
One theory is that the G-spot is an extension of the clitoris, a complex “CUV structure” surrounded by the clitoris (Clitoris), the urethra (Urethra), and the vagina (Vagina), which is becoming more and more common.
We suggest that the special sensitivity of the lower anterior vaginal wall could be explained by pressure and movement of clitoris’ root during a vaginal penetration and subsequent perineal contraction. The G-spot could be explained by the richly innervated clitoris.
In any case, the fact remains that stimulation of the G-spot can lead to orgasm.
We will talk more about G-spot orgasms later on, but the G-spot is different from the normal clitoris in that it provides a different kind of pleasure.
For this reason, many women yearn for orgasms in the G-spot, but unfortunately, for most people, the G-spot is not functioning as a sexual zone, so stimulating it doesn’t make them feel good right away.
This is why “development” is essential for the G-spot.
How to find the G-spot
The G-spot is located in the vagina and is not very deep, 5 cm to 7 cm from the entrance of the vagina.
Moreover, the G-spot is not a small area like the clitoris (glans clitoris), but rather it is spread out to some extent.
Therefore, when you insert your finger into the vagina, you can touch the G-spot.
The location of the G-spot is on the anterior vaginal wall, or abdomen, about 5 cm from the vulva.
First, lie down on your back and get your clitoris stimulated and wet on your knees.
This is so that it does not hurt to insert a finger into the vagina, but if you are just looking for the G-spot for now and caressing it is too much trouble, you can use lotion instead.
Then, with your palm facing your abdomen, slowly insert your middle finger into the vagina.
When you get to about the second joint of your middle finger, stop.
From there, bend your fingers and explore the vagina, moving them back and forth and from side to side, as if you were gently rubbing the belly of your fingers against the vagina.
There should be a unique tactile sensation in the vagina that is different from other parts of the vagina.
Specifically, the G-spot is considered to be more coarse or slightly swollen than the rest of the vagina and is unique to the G-spot.
However, the location, size, and feel of the G-spot can vary greatly from person to person, so it can be difficult to tell.
This will be discussed again at the end of this article, but you may want to look for it while pressing a little inside the vagina.
Does it have to be developed to become a sexual area?
In order to get pleasure from the G-spot, it must first be developed.
This is because, unlike the clitoris and nipples, the G-spot is not a fully functioning sexual area for most people.
In other words, the G-spot usually doesn’t feel particularly pleasant when stimulated in some way.
Instead, you are a very lucky person if you can suddenly feel it.
Steady development is essential to help people who don’t feel it feel good.
Development means increasing the sensitivity of the sexual zones.
The process of development does not involve any special work or training, but simply stimulating the G-spot little by little through masturbation or sex, etc.
The procedure of G-spot development will be explained later, but in most cases, it takes a long period of time, such as several months.
In the beginning, it may feel like a hassle, especially since you have to tweak a place that you don’t feel comfortable with.
In fact, unfortunately, many people give up on the development of the G-spot halfway through.
However, as the development progresses, the kind of pleasure that comes with it will gradually increase.
Once you get the hang of it, you’ll be able to cum more and more.
What is an orgasm like in the G-spot?
The G-spot is a very attractive sexual zone, but it requires steady development to really feel good.
But what is the nature of the orgasm you can get from the G-spot in the first place?
You’ve probably heard that G-spot orgasms are very different from clitoral orgasms, and you must have heard something about how the G-spot orgasm is very different from the one you get from the clitoris.
There is also a sexual zone in the vagina called Portio, and orgasms here are also different.
Clitoral orgasms are often described as feeling like an electric current, a heady sensation.
The moment the pleasure climbs to the top in one fell swoop, the sensation is like a rush of electricity to the clitoris.
On the other hand, the G-spot is deep in the vagina, where the pleasure spreads gently from the bottom of the body, and when it reaches climax, it spreads throughout the body.
In addition, an orgasm at Portio is characterized by a sensation of climax that lasts for a while, as if the whole body is a sexual zone.
In simple terms, the clitoris is a “sharp” sensation, the G-spot is a “deep” climax, and Portio is a “full-body” ecstasy that can be reached.
Of course, each person’s perception of pleasure is different, so you may have a completely different impression of it.
There are two main characteristics of the orgasms that can be felt by stimulation of the G-spot: 1.
- Feel the desire to urinate when you touch it
- May squirt when reaching orgasm
As mentioned earlier, the G-spot is a CUV structure and is surrounded by the urethra.
Therefore, we can say that the G-spot is a type of urethral sponge.
This area is responsible for the urge to urinate and may make you want to pee when stimulated.
Let’s take a closer look at these phenomena, as well as the characteristics of G-spot orgasms.
When you touch it, you may feel like you have to urinate
As mentioned earlier, it is thought that the G-spot is a complex system of “CUV structures” consisting of the clitoris, urethra, and vagina.
This means that the vagina, urethra, and even the bladder are very close together, and sexual stimulation to the vagina can be transmitted to these areas as well.
Have you ever had the experience of having to pee …… for some reason while having sex or masturbating?
This is exactly because the stimulation of sex has been transmitted to the urethra and other parts of the body.
However, this urge to urinate is basically not a real urge to urinate, and even if you run to the bathroom, you won’t be able to pee much, because most of the time, you will not be able to pee in the urethra.
This is because in most cases, the body interprets the stimulation transmitted to the urethra or bladder as a collection of urine.
This urine-like sensation is said to be a precursor to what is called “squirting”.
This is also important when considering how to stimulate the G-spot, which we will look at again later.
Thus, when the G-spot is being stimulated, you may feel the urge to urinate.
If you have to pee when you’re getting comfortable, you may feel like you don’t want to.
But if you look at it differently, the fact that you have to pee means that you are able to stimulate your vagina. At any rate, if you feel the urge to urinate, you may consider that you have successfully stimulated the G-spot.
Squirting at the same time as orgasm
A phenomenon unique to G-spot orgasms is called “Female Ejaculation”.
This is a phenomenon in which a “clear” fluid gushes out of the female urethra with great force.
It often occurs when a woman reaches orgasm, so much so that squirting is considered by some to be a symbol of a woman’s climax.
You may be under the impression that what comes out of a squirt is pee, but in fact, this fluid is very different from pee.
It is thought to be strongly influenced by an organ called the Skene’s gland, which is located near the G-spot.
It is located near the G-spot, where it produces a unique discharge.
The secretion is composed of very similar components to the prostatic fluid secreted by the male prostate.
In other words, the female skein glands are the equivalent of the male prostate.
Increased sexual arousal causes all the fluid secreted by these skein glands to erupt at once.
The spurts are not as large as pee, but they do not come out in large quantities.
In rare cases, it can come out in surprisingly large quantities, but most of the time it’s between 2 and 3 milliliters.
Also, the squirting liquid is clear and colorless and has a low odor, not yellow and ammonia like pee.
In other words, if you are stimulating your G-spot and you are about to pee, it is actually the secretion from your skein glands that comes out, not your pee.
Also, squirting does not mean “squirting = orgasm,” so men in particular should be careful not to misunderstand it.
Squirting is not always accompanied by pleasure. There are many men who misunderstand this fact.
However, squirting is a phenomenon that is difficult to occur when various conditions are not met, and forcing a man to aim for a squirt can be painful.
The important thing here is not to squirt, but to not worry about urination while masturbating.
How to feel orgasms in the G-spot
We have seen what an orgasm in the G-spot is like and what happens when an orgasm is reached.
Now that you know this much, you’ll definitely want to experience climaxing in the G-spot, right?
As mentioned before, it is not easy to get pleasure in the G-spot and it is important to be patient because it often takes time to develop.
- Develop the sexual area carefully and patiently
- Create a safe environment to reach orgasm
- Surrender to the pleasures without worrying about embarrassment
- Don’t mind the urge to urinate because it is a precursor to squirting
G-spot orgasms are difficult to reach if you only stimulate the G-spot.
The biggest trick is to stimulate other sexual zones at the same time.
In particular, the clitoris is closely related to the G-spot, so if you caress it well, the sensitivity of the vagina will increase.
It is also important to take care of your mental health, such as creating an environment where you can enjoy the pleasure without worrying about embarrassment.
Let’s find out more about each of these procedures.
1. Development of sexual zones
In order to reach orgasm in the G-spot, you should start by stimulating the sexual area.
By the way, before stimulating the G-spot with sex or masturbation, it is recommended that you pee in the toilet beforehand.
This way, if later on, when your arousal builds and you have to pee, you will be relieved to know that it is a squirt and not a real urge to urinate.
When you feel safe, it’s easier to surrender to the pleasure.
The development of the sexual zones is essential for G-spot orgasms, but the G-spot isn’t the only sexual zone in this case.
The development of the clitoris is also extremely important.
This is because the clitoris is connected to the vagina and is also closely related to the G-spot. In fact, what we always see is the glans pubis, which is just the tip of the clitoris.
The real clitoris is a very large organ that is mostly hidden inside the body.
This means that if you caress the clitoris well before stimulating the G-spot, the sensitivity of the G-spot will be easier to develop to some extent.
In addition to how to develop the G-spot through masturbation and how to have your partner develop it through sex, let’s take a closer look at what to look for when developing the sexual area.
In both cases, we will assume that the clitoris is being thoroughly caressed and wet.
Developing the G-spot through masturbation
The most effective way to develop the G-spot is to develop the G-spot with your own fingers or sex toys by masturbation.
Let’s look at how to do it with your fingers first. The procedure consists of five steps: finding the G-spot, stroking, circular motion, pressing, and tapping.
The first step is to discover the G-spot.
If you have already stimulated the clitoris sufficiently, your arousal should be high, but the G-spot swells up a bit when you get excited. That bulge is the area of the G-spot.
Once you have found the target area, try inserting your two fingers, index and middle finger, together.
You will need to be careful not to overdo it. You can use any kind of stroking technique.
You can crawl your fingers back and forth or in circular motions, or just use your fingers to stimulate the area.
However, rubbing or scratching is strictly prohibited as it can hurt the vaginal wall.
Then, slowly massage the entire G-spot, pressing gently into it.
Be careful not to push in too hard, as it will hurt the vaginal walls.
Then, tap the G-spot with your finger and shake the entire G-spot.
The method of tapping is simple: just repeat the process of bending and stretching your finger.
However, don’t do it as hard as you can, just enough to make it sound a little bit stronger on the pubic bone.
You can use either two fingers at the same time or one at a time when you tap, so just keep stimulating in a way that feels good and you’ll get closer to orgasm.
The next method is to stimulate the G-spot with a sex toy.
However, it is much easier than using your fingers. After caressing the clitoris thoroughly, you can apply lotion to the vibrator and insert it.
Then, when you turn on the vibrator, it will automatically stimulate the G-spot by vibrating.
For more effective stimulation, you can use a G-spot vibrator specifically for the G-spot to help you reach orgasm more easily.
Developing the G-Spot with Sex
There is another way to develop the G-spot during sex, but the cooperation of your partner is essential for this.
There are three ways to develop the G-spot during sex: finger, sex toy, and penis.
As for the finger and sex toy methods, you can simply ask your partner to do what I just described in the masturbation section.
However, if you ask him to caress the G-spot with his fingers, be sure to tell him to do it correctly.
This is because men, under the influence of pornographic videos, sometimes do it so violently that they scrape the vagina roughly.
It’s very painful to have your vagina rattled, isn’t it? Moreover, many men do this kind of caressing.
Incidentally, some men try to caress the G-spot with their tongues, but unless you have a long tongue like a lizard, it’s impossible. If your partner is doing it wrong, you can gently tell him to do it this way.
If you want him to develop your G-spot during sex penetration, it is recommended to have him stimulate it with his penis in the cowgirl or normal position.
Since the penis is often warped, these positions make it easier for the glans to hit the anterior vaginal wall on the belly side.
On the contrary, the hindgut position is rather effective for the Portio sexual area, as it hits the back side.
When you ask him to develop in insertion, you still need to pay attention to how you move.
Men think that a woman will be more pleased if they thrust hard, so they try to move faster and faster anyway.
However, as mentioned earlier, the G-spot sexual area is better to be pushed slowly or tapped lightly, so intense movements can cause more pain than pleasure.
You can stimulate the G-spot by moving your penis in and out slowly and being conscious of rubbing it against your abdomen.
If you feel the urge to urinate, don’t worry about it, just keep doing it.
Points to keep in mind when developing sexual areas
The development of the sexual organs can proceed effectively if you follow the procedure we have just described.
However, in both masturbation and sex, it is important to note that too intense movements can damage the vagina.
Especially if you have a man do it for you, you should teach him how to do it correctly, as he is often misinformed due to pornography and other influences.
However, it is basically recommended that you do your own sexual development.
This is because it is you who knows how to do it best and how to make it feel best.
Even if the sexual zones are done a little differently, the pleasure can be very different.
It is easier to develop them yourself by using your fingers or sex toys, because you can stimulate them the way you want.
Also, it is easier to come and please your man if you develop it beforehand.
When stimulating the G-spot, be sure to keep the nails short and trimmed.
This is because the vagina is very delicate and even if you move your finger carefully, you can damage the walls of the vagina at an unexpected moment.
If the vagina is damaged, bacteria can enter through it and cause an infection.
It is perfect if the nails are aligned short enough to be a little deep, and then sanded so that the edges do not rattle.
Of course, you should wash your hands clean before fiddling with the G-spot.
Do not put your unclean hands in the vagina. The same is true when using a sex toy.
Thoroughly clean the goods after use with warm water and soap, and rinse them lightly before use as well, just in case.
These precautions are the same for both masturbation and sex, so be sure to ask him to follow them when you ask him to develop you during sex.
2. Prepare a safe environment for orgasms
In order to reach a climax in the G-spot, it is important to prepare a calming environment in which you can have a safe and comfortable orgasm.
For example, if you try to masturbate in a place where people frequently come and go, or where the noise is too loud, it is difficult to concentrate on enjoying the pleasure.
If you don’t know when people are coming in or if the noise is too loud to calm your mind, it will be difficult for you to reach orgasm.
This means that it is important to have a private place in your room where you can be alone or with your partner for g-spot masturbation and sex.
As long as the room is securely locked and the curtains are closed, it’s the perfect environment.
If you don’t want to be bothered by the sounds of your surroundings, you might want to play your favorite music at an appropriate volume.
The more private the environment is, the easier it will be for you to reach your G-spot orgasm.
This kind of environment is very important, but it can be neglected.
This is because we tend to be distracted by technique and focus on how to stimulate the sexual zones and increase the pleasure. However, the mental aspect is also very important to orgasm.
So no matter how well you can stimulate the G-spot with a solid technique, if you don’t have the right environment, you won’t come close to orgasm.
3. Don’t worry about embarrassment
The biggest barrier to reaching orgasm in the G-spot is often the feeling of embarrassment, and as the pleasure from stimulating the G-spot increases, you may experience mixed emotions as well as an unprecedented sense of excitement.
‘I’m so embarrassed to feel it when I masturbate: ……’, ‘What if it feels too good to be weird? ……’, ‘I wonder if other people will hear me. …… You may feel a lot of anxiety, confusion, etc.
However, these feelings of embarrassment are the biggest enemy of female orgasm and can prevent a woman from cumming in the G-spot, because negative feelings such as embarrassment and confusion can cause the muscles to stiffen.
This is because negative emotions such as embarrassment and embarrassment can cause the muscles to stiffen.
For a woman to reach orgasm, a balance of moderate muscle tension and relaxation is essential.
Mental tension disrupts that balance, making it difficult to reach orgasm.
As mentioned earlier, if you have a private environment, you don’t have to worry about this; you won’t go crazy if you have an orgasm in the G-spot, and as long as you do it in your room, you won’t have to worry about what other people think of you.
In order to achieve G-spot masturbation, you should be able to surrender to the pleasure without any embarrassment.
4. Urge to urinate might be spuirt? Let’s get over it
As I mentioned earlier, when the G-spot is stimulated and sexual arousal increases, you may feel something like a urge to urinate.
This is because the stimulation of the G-spot also transfers stimulation to the urethra and bladder. However, this is most likely not a real urge to urinate, so you can just ignore it and continue.
It is important to get over this urge to urinate, as it can be a sign of squirting due to the activation of the skein glands.
However, if you mistakenly think of it as pee and try to hold back the urge to urinate with force, you will also push the heightened sexual excitement and pleasure into the air, which will keep you from having an orgasm.
Therefore, if you don’t try to hold back the urge to urinate, but instead let your body do the work and focus on the pleasure, you will get even closer to orgasm.
As a result, your orgasm and squirt may come at the same time, and you may experience a great climax.
If you feel something like urine during masturbation or sex, there is a way to feel safe and not worry about it.
That is to go to the bathroom and get all of your pee out before you have sex.
This way, even if you have a urge to urinate during the act, you will know that it is not a real urge to urinate.
So, you can continue stimulating the G-spot without worrying about it, and you will be able to reach orgasm.
Frequently Asked Questions about the G-spot
We have looked in detail at the characteristics of G-spot orgasms and detailed stimulation methods.
However, even if you continue to do so, you may find it hard to get the desired effect, and you may feel strange.
So, let’s look at some common questions about the G-spot from the following three perspectives
- I can’t find the G-spot.
- Can you mess with the G-spot even if you are a virgin?
- It’s hard to feel orgasm in the G-spot
The inability to find the G-spot is the first obstacle that beginners to G-spot masturbation run into; the G-spot is often unique in its texture, so if you slow down and explore it with your fingers, you may find the G-spot.
Also, stimulation of the G-spot can be done by a virgin, and don’t worry, it won’t cause any problems, but it will take some time before you get the pleasure from the G-spot, so keep calm and continue.
What if I can’t find the G-spot itself to begin with?
The G-spot is not like the clitoris, it is hidden in the vagina, so you have to get the hang of it.
As mentioned earlier, the way to find it is basically to insert your finger into the vagina and explore.
If you feel calm and move your finger extensively, you should find an area that feels different from the rest.
However, the location of the G-spot varies from person to person, so it may be a little outside the standard location.
Also, the size of the G-spot area varies from person to person, so it may be difficult to explore it with your fingers if it is narrow.
Unlike clitoral masturbation, G-spot masturbation is more difficult because of this difficulty in locating the sexual area in the first place.
However, the G-spot has the property of swelling up when sexually aroused.
Therefore, it may be easier to find the G-spot if you enhance your pleasure with the clitoris beforehand.
If you explore it by relying on the puffiness and plumpness, you should find a place that is tactilely different from other places.
Don’t give up too soon because you can’t find it, but rather build up your excitement and try again.
Is it safe for a virgin?
It is perfectly acceptable for virgins to perform G-spot masturbation, and if you masturbate with your fingers, you basically don’t lose your “virgin membranes” either.
The virgin membranes are the small folds of mucous membrane inside the vulva of a woman who has not had sex.
Some people may be concerned about the loss of the membranes after sexual activity.
When stimulating the G-spot with a finger, it is thought that it is rarely lost unless the finger is pumped in and out vigorously.
However, if you insert a thick sex toy, such as a vibrator or dildo, there is a high possibility of loss of virgin membranes as well as the penis.
For this reason, girls who want to take care of their virgin membranes should limit themselves to finger masturbation as much as possible.
In addition, don’t worry, being a virgin does not matter at all when it comes to orgasm.
However, if you do it roughly, both the virgin membranes and the vagina will be damaged, so be gentle.
I can’t quite feel my orgasm at the G-spot
The development of the G-spot takes time anyway. It takes a few weeks to several months to get pleasure from the G-spot, depending on the individual.
Therefore, the development of the G-spot requires patience, but once you get the hang of it, it may be easier to develop it quickly.
The trick to getting pleasure from the G-spot is to stimulate the clitoris with it as well.
As mentioned earlier, the clitoris and vagina are closely related, so the more pleasure you get from the clitoris, the more sensitive your G-spot will be. In particular, if you want to stimulate the G-spot with a sex toy, you can try using a two-legged (rabbit-type) vibrator that comes with a clitoral vibrator, which can make a big difference.
The rabbit-type vibrator makes it easier to have a two-point stimulation on the clitoris and the G-spot.
As a result, the pleasure in the clitoris will be tied to the G-spot and the sexual nerves in the vagina will be activated.
In addition, if you only concentrate on training the G-spot in normal masturbation, it will be a big burden on your mind.
Therefore, it is important to take care of your mental health by mainly doing normal masturbation and developing your G-spot in between.
Summary
The G-spot is a very powerful sexual zone, but it needs to be developed in order to feel good, which can be found by inserting your middle finger into the vagina up to about the second joint and exploring the ventral side of the vagina by bending your finger.
It is characterized by a rough sensation and slightly puffy and raised, so you should look for it by relying on a different feel from the surroundings.
In order to develop the G-spot, you must first caress the clitoris beforehand to ensure that your sexual arousal is well built up.
If the pleasure in the clitoris is increased, the sexual zones in the vagina will also become more sensitive and easier to develop.
If you’re doing it with your fingers, insert your index and middle fingers and stroke or lightly press around the G-spot area.
Then continue to stimulate the area by repeatedly bending and stretching your fingers and tapping and rocking them gently.
If you are using a sex toy, a vibrator is recommended.
If you want to have him develop on your penis, it will be easier to develop it if you place him in a cowgirl or normal position where he can easily hit the G-spot.
Please note that if you have to pee during the development of the G-spot, it is not a real urge to urinate.
It may be a little uncomfortable, but don’t let it bother you and continue to masturbate or have sex.
By all means, develop your G-spot and enjoy your best orgasm.
