One of the caresses that a woman gives to a man during sex is a blow job. It’s commonly referred to as a blowjob, but many women honestly think it’s not their favorite thing to do.

The penis is put in your mouth and licked, but it is also the place where urine is expelled, so to be honest it is smelly and unhygienic.

The same is true for a woman’s vagina as well, but since women don’t have many opportunities to perform foreplay on men, some people may not be able to wipe away their resistance forever.

For those people, I would like to introduce you to the psychology of men, the benefits of women, and how to deal with it so that you can become a blowjob lover.

If you want to give a blowjob but aren’t too keen on it ……, or if you’re not very good at it and can’t give it to him, but want to get him to cum somehow, please check it out.

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Why do men like blow jobs?

When you are having sex, I think it is common for men to ask you to give them a blow job. Once you get used to it, some of you might give your man a blowjob willingly, but everyone is resistant to it at first.

Even if a woman doesn’t want to do it so much, many men want to get pleasure from it anyway, so it often happens that they ask for a lick you are convinced to it.

However, by understanding the psychology of men wanting a blowjob, women may be less resistant to it, so let’s check out some of the most common things in a man’s mind.

Feel affection from the partner

The most common psychological reason why men want a blowjob is ‘because they feel affection’.

Since blow jobs involve sucking and licking a penis from the glans to the root of the penis, most men understand that there will be some resistance to it.

A surprising number of men feel that if they are willing to do an act of resistance, it’s because they have love for you. You don’t want to lick a man’s penis that you don’t like, unless there are special circumstances.

The best way to give a man a blowjob that makes him feel affectionate is to lick it gently. The penis is the most sensitive part of a man’s body, so if you lick it roughly or your teeth hit it, he may feel pain.

The key to licking gently is to open your mouth wide and lick with a soft tongue, and be careful not to let your teeth hit it when you take it into your mouth.

If the tip of your tongue is hard, the discomfort will be greater than the pleasant sensation, so do it as if you were licking soft-serve ice cream.

He loves the feeling of being on top

The next most common reason for this is because it satisfies the desire to conquer.

Many men want to dominate a woman in their hearts, and it gives them satisfaction to feel you being submissive, and since many of them are S-types, those who want to keep a woman under their control during sex tend to prefer sucking cock.

Also, since blowjobs involve licking a man’s penis, the desire for dominance may be physically satisfied because the blowjob is physically located lower down, burying the face in the lower half of the body, so different men may have different criteria for satisfaction of their desires.

If a man presses your head against his penis or shakes his hips while giving a blowjob, he has a strong desire to dominate.

This is partly because it’s a matter of compatibility with your partner, so if you feel uncomfortable, it’s a shortcut to a solution to this problem to talk to your man.

Feels good

All a man needs in order to ejaculate is sexual arousal and physical pleasure.

Many people want their women to have blow jobs because it is a way to feel good without having to insert themselves into the vagina.

There are two types of people who like it because it gives them the same sensations as vaginal penetration, and those who like the sensation of oral penetration.

However, the overwhelming difference between the mouth and vaginal insertion is that you don’t have to wear a condom to feel the mucous membrane directly.

If you don’t want to get pregnant when inserting it vaginally, you will always need a condom, but if it’s in the oral cavity, you can do it without wearing a condom.

However, if you are having sex with someone other than your partner, it is recommended to use a condom to prevent sexually transmitted diseases.

The fact that men find blowjobs pleasurable is also a sign that a woman’s blowjob technique is high.

Not only licking with the tip of the tongue, but also sucking it up to the root of the cock, and using the hand to stimulate it in a double manner, etc. are required.

Love seeing you sucking his cock

Since women don’t have a penis of their own, they can’t practice and have to get down to business with sex.

It can be embarrassing for a woman to be awkward with an unfamiliar act, but the awkwardness makes a man’s sex drive even more exciting.

The fact that he is doing something unaccustomed for himself and doing it hard makes him even more aroused, and some of them ejaculate as it is.

This is a feeling for a woman who is not so used to sucking cock, so if you give her a blow job that she is too used to, she may not feel this way.

The place where a man feels it in the penis is the glans area, so if you attack that area intensively, the awkwardness may be alleviated a little.

Women don’t know what is comfortable for them, so they need to check the man’s reaction every time. You need to check their reactions at every step.

Why women don’t like blow jobs

While some women may like to give blowjobs, most women are either not good at it or don’t want to do it as much as possible.

One factor may be that women are not used to giving foreplays during sex because they don’t have the opportunity to caress men very often.

For those women who think “I’m the only one who has bad feelings about blowjobs ……,” here are some of the most common reasons why women don’t like blowjobs.

Just making sure you’re not alone will make you feel better, so don’t get too caught up in it.

Tired and painful

When you give a blow job, you not only sucking his penis in your mouth, but you also open your mouth wide and put it deep into your throat.

When you lick it, it doesn’t affect you particularly, but if you put it in deep, you open your mouth wide and it puts a lot of pressure on your jaw.

This can be difficult for people with TMJ disorder, which causes a jerking sound when you open your jaw wide.

You also feel like you’re going to vomit if you put something in the back of your mouth.

This is called the vomiting reflex, which is a normal reaction, but in rare cases, even an object hitting the front side of the tongue makes some people feel uncomfortable, which makes sucking a blowjob even more painful for those people.

The mouth is always open wide during the blowjob, so the mouth area gets tired.

The penis is a sensitive place, so you have to be careful not to cause pain to your partner and not to let your teeth touch it.

Moving your tongue with your mouth wide open is quite tight, and it can be a factor that makes women think they’re not good at sucking cock.

Don’t want to show your face during a blowjob

Another reason why women who think they are not good at sucking cock is that they don’t want people to see their faces during a blow job.

They open their mouths wide, so it’s not a very pretty face. Also, when you stick your mouth and tongue out, your chin comes out and changes the shape of your mouth area, which is even more of a turn-off.

If your partner has a big penis, you have to open your mouth even wider.

If you’re not comfortable with oral sex because you don’t want him to be able to see your face during a blowjob, I recommend having your man sit on the edge of the bed or in a chair.

If you give a blowjob to a man lying on the bed, your face will be visible to the man, and he will show you his face, which you do not want him to see. However, if you give a blow job while sitting down, the man’s face will be on top and the woman’s face will be on the bottom.

If you lick from the bottom, your head will be below his and he won’t be able to see much of your face, which is recommended.

If you turn your face down and move your head closer to the man’s side, the licking will be almost invisible. If a man wants to see you licking, it may not be enough for him, but if you don’t want him to see your face, you can do it this way.

Not clean

A lot of women who don’t like to give blow jobs are probably because the penis itself is not clean. The penis is both a reproductive organ and an excretory organ.

It would be nice if the vagina and urethra were separate like women’s, but for men, the place where urine comes out and the place where semen comes out are the same, so they may resist because they think that sucking on it is the same as licking urine …….

Also, people with pseudophimosis also tend to accumulate pubic wax, and it doesn’t feel good to have it in their mouths while they are licking.

The best way to deal with this is to have your man wash his junk carefully on a regular basis, or bathe before you start sucking on it.

If you wash it clean, the smell and the shamelessness will be removed, so it will be easier to give a blowjob.

However, if you are not good at it despite being clean, it is because you feel uncomfortable with the taste and sticky texture of the prostate juice (called pre-cum) that comes out while you are licking it.

This is something that comes out when a man is aroused, so you can’t stop it, but if it bothers you, wipe it off with a tissue or something else while you are giving blowjobs.

Don’t like having to drink his semen

From a man’s point of view, fellatio can be as pleasurable as or even more pleasurable than vaginal penetration. If you’re not wearing a condom, the penetrating sensation becomes a habit for many people.

Therefore, if you can’t control your climax well, you will ejaculate during a blowjob, and you will end up cumming in your woman’s mouth.

There is a taste and smell of sperm when it is taken out of your mouth, and many women really don’t like the taste and smell of sperm.

It is often likened to the smell of chestnut blossoms or chemicals like haiter, but when that kind of smell or taste spreads in the mouth, it increases the discomfort.

When a man feels too good to be true, he may feel the urge to cum in his mouth, and many men ejaculate in their mouths, so-called oral ejaculation.

If you don’t want to give a blowjob because you don’t want him to ejaculate in your mouth, you just need to control the man’s pleasure, so you should check his reaction and the condition of his penis while doing it, and then guide him well so that he does it vaginally when he ejaculates.

The benefits of giving a blowjob

If you say, “I don’t want to give a blow job as much as possible,” or “I will give a blow job if my partner asks me to, but I try not to do it myself,” it’s probably because you still have a negative image of blow jobs.

If used well, fellatio can increase a man’s satisfaction with sex and can end in a good atmosphere.

In addition to giving men pleasure, fellatio has several other benefits for women as well. We’d like to introduce you to the benefits, so if you’re having trouble with blowjobs, please check them out.

Can get your partner excited

Just a situation such as “the woman you love is licking and sucking your penis” can significantly increase a man’s arousal.

Sexual arousal and physical stimulation are the two elements a man needs to ejaculate, and a blowjob can quickly satisfy both.

Even if a woman is not used to sucking a cock and her movements are awkward, a situation such as “she’s working hard to perform an unfamiliar act” is a source of excitement.

To make it even more visually exciting, try looking up at your man during a blowjob.

Gazing up at him while licking his penis will excite a man quite a bit because he is now eye to eye with the woman who is licking his penis.

Licking sound while staring also works well. The sound of sucking up and the jingle of a coyote licking will also turn a man on even more.

You can tell your partner how much you love him

When sex is primarily male-dominated, there are few opportunities for women to caress men.

If you are passive, you may not know how to convey your affection in sex. In that case, it is very effective to give a man a blow job.

Many men also think that giving a blowjob to a man is an expression of affection, and they are quite happy if a woman gives him a blowjob on her own.

The key to giving yourself a blow job is to bring the blow job in a natural flow.

If a man is caressing a woman and she suddenly starts to suck his cock, the flow of the conversation will be interrupted and it will be unnatural.

The key to increasing a man’s arousal is not to ruin the atmosphere. Start by touching it with your hand, lick it lightly with the tip of your tongue, and then suck on the penis.

You can create a good mood

Blow jobs can be started during sex, or before sex begins.

Giving a blowjob before sex begins can surprise and excite a man at the same time, in addition to making it easier for him to feel caught off guard. It also allows the woman to take control and helps to set a good mood.

Instead of suddenly licking the penis, start by gently touching the penis and testicles with your hands to increase the sensitivity.

As a man becomes aroused, his penis will become more erect, so lick it a little at a time once it’s erect. The glans, which is also the most sensitive part of the penis, will be more effective if you lick it after impatience, so stimulate the penis first.

You can move it up and down gently with your hand or clench it and move it around.

Once you are fully erect, lick the glans with the tip of your tongue while touching it with your fingers.

Most of the prostate juice will come out at this point, so if you are concerned about it, please wipe it with a tissue. If you suck and lick the glans in a circular motion, it is recommended to lick the glans in a circular motion so that the man can feel it more easily.

Improve your “blowjob” skills! What you can do today

Many women don’t want to give a blowjob …… as much as possible because they don’t like to do it.

However, now that we’ve introduced the psychology of wanting a man to give you a blow job and the benefits of it, some of you may be inspired to give it a try.

If you can, you want to do what makes your beloved partner happy, right? If you can give a blowjob to your partner without feeling bad about it, your man will feel good and satisfied, and your woman will be happy to see her man feeling it, so there are many benefits for both of you.

Here are some ways you can improve your “bad blowjob”. All of them can be implemented immediately, so please try them today.

Take a bath together and wash carefully

If you don’t like it because you don’t feel “clean,” then you can take a bath with a man and wash your penis.

Even if a man washes his penis thoroughly, some people may not feel comfortable unless they see a woman washing it, but bathing with a man can solve that problem.

The key to having a woman wash you is to lather up the body wash thoroughly and wash it gently. If you don’t lather it up, the body soap can get into the urethra and cause pain.

Lathering also allows you to enjoy a hand job in the bath.

If you start sucking first while you’re washing, there’s no problem, as your man will enjoy it.

After rinsing off the bubbles thoroughly, lick the penis area and you’ll get a gradual erection, so when it starts to get hard, attack the turtle head.

The sound of blowjobs in the bathtub tends to reverberate, so the sounds of saliva and licking can be heard with more emphasis.

It can excite both men and women and is a great way to set the mood before sex, so try to start sucking cock after you finish washing up in the bath.

Benefit from alcohol

Before giving a blow job, a man’s penis can be washed in the bath to remove the smell and dirt and make it clean, but if the act of giving a blow job itself is not your cup of tea, one solution is to give a blow job with the help of alcohol.

When you’re having a drink at home with your partner at night, you may often get into the mood for sex. The momentum of the momentum may allow you to get a blow job, so start by having a good time drinking.

If you drink so much that you get drunk, you won’t be able to remember anything, and you won’t be able to give a blowjob, so try to drink just enough to lift your spirits.

Once you’re in a good mood after you’ve had your drink, you can get into the mood for sex by touching your partner’s crotch and impatient.

When your man can’t hold back anymore after a certain amount of impatience, you can directly touch him and bring him in for a blow job.

Try using flavored lotions

Blow jobs only taste like your own saliva and a man’s prostate juice, and I think many people don’t like the taste of that.

Saliva doesn’t taste good, but prostate fluid tastes a bit salty and sticky to some people, which is why some people shy away from it. If this is the case, you may want to try using flavored lotions.

There are many different types of lotions available on the market, and flavored lotions are one of the most popular items for women.

These items help women to make it easier for men to caress them, and because they are flavored, they are often delicious and make it easier for women who don’t like caressing to do so.

The chocolate and fruit flavors are especially popular, and although they have the feel of a lube, the taste can make a lot of difference. If you’re not comfortable with licking a man’s penis as it is, flavored lotions can make a difference and make it much easier to do than it is now.

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Handjobs simultaneously with blowjobs

A blow job is not only licking but also taking it into your mouth and sucking it deep into your mouth, which can be hard if you have a strong vomit reflex.

Men want you to lick them with your tongue and mouth, not your hands, so you want to lick them if you can.

In those cases, I recommend using a hand job to give him a blow job as well. A hand job will stimulate the penis, and all you have to do is lick the glans to get the pleasure.

First of all, while you’re not erect (even if you already have an erection, it doesn’t matter), put your hand on the penis and move it up and down.

After a certain amount of time, it will become hard, so try licking the glans with the tip of your tongue while touching the penis.

You won’t have to suck on the back of your throat if you suck on it while giving a hand job, so it will be less painful. If you don’t like the bitterness, try giving a blowjob this way.

Summarize: Enjoy lovey-dovey sex by incorporating a good blow job

In this article, we have introduced the psychology of men and the benefits of giving a blowjob for women who don’t like it, and how to deal with it so that they don’t feel bad about it.

Many men feel affection for a woman when she gives them a blowjob, and they want her to do it because it makes them feel good.

It also satisfies the desire for domination, which is to dominate a woman, so they sometimes directly ask for a blowjob.

However, many women are not good at sucking cock. By taking measures such as bathing and washing together or using flavored lotions, you can reduce your dislike of blowjobs.

Let’s express our affection for each other and have satisfying sex.

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