A strap-on dildo or penis band is a fantasy sex toy that allows a woman to grow a penis.
Sometimes a woman may want be on top of a man too. Sometimes men also want to be fucked by women.
The strap-on dildo I’m going to introduce to you is a very powerful tool in such cases. It may sound somewhat complicated, but the strap-on dildo itself is very simple to use.
However, the choice and use of the strap-on dildo will vary greatly depending on whether a man or a woman wears the strap-on dildo.
If used well, strap-on dildos can greatly increase the variety of sex. As a result, couples’ lovemaking can be more exciting and sex can be significantly more satisfying.
However, choosing the right size for a strap-on dildo is important, and lotion and post-use maintenance is also essential.
It’s also important to take a few precautions to keep them safe.
Therefore, this article will explain in detail the features and purpose of strap-on dildos, how to choose and use them.
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What is a strap-on dildo?
To begin with, a strap-on dildo, also known as a penis band, is a sex toy that has a strap on the dildo that can be worn around the waist.
It is sometimes called a penis band, but it is more commonly referred to as a “strap-on dildo” or “dildo harness”.
The main feature of a strap-on dildo is that the dildo can be attached to the body like a real penis and inserted into the vagina or anus as if it were a man with an erect penis.
First, let’s take a look at the construction of the strap-on dildo in detail.
Dildos are famous for their penis-shaped tautness and are a favorite sex toy for women all over the world.
However, the dildo has a fatal weakness. That is, you have to hold the dildo in your hand and move it around to use it.
This means that you can’t swing your hips and make piston movements like a real penis, or control the stimulation with your body movements.
This is where the strap-on dildo was created, which I will introduce to you.
The strap-on dildo is divided into two parts. The first is the dildo section and the second is the harness section.
The dildo section is, as the name implies, a dildo, and is no different from a normal sex toy dildo.
The important part of the strap-on dildo is the harness section.
The harness section is what connects the body to the dildo and is used to wrap the harness around your waist like a belt.
The harness is mainly made of nylon or leather, and the band is shaped like a thong or corset.
The strap-on dildo has a unique mechanism that allows it to adhere to your body as if it were a real penis, allowing you to move it the way you want it to.
As we’ll discuss in more detail later, strap-on dildos are worn by a man or woman as a substitute for a penis and inserted into a partner’s vagina or anus.
Although the strap-on dildo may seem a bit geeky, many couples are now using strap-on dildos to add new stimulation to their sex lives.
Types of strap-on dildo
There are several different types of strap-on dildos. And it’s complicated because there are quite a few different types.
Let’s focus on the basic types here. First, there are three types of harnesses: the “two-strap”, “three-strap”, and “corset” type.
There are three types of plugs: plug, ring, and cavity, and three types of dildos themselves: standard, G-spot/prostate specific, and with vibration.
The materials of the dildos themselves are also diverse, including plastic, latex, rubber and PVC (polyvinyl chloride).
The following is a brief explanation of the characteristics of each type of dildo.
Let’s start with the type of strap. Basically, the two-strap format is not recommended.
Two-straps consist of two straps, one wraps around the wearer’s waist like a belt and the other connects in the middle of the waist through the crotch.
This type is easy to put on, but is difficult to use because the straps rub against the crotch area and can be painful, and the dildo cannot be held steady.
The three straps, on the other hand, are the same in that a single belt wraps around the waist, but the latter two are wrapped around one thigh on each side.
This design is easier to use because the straps don’t hit the pubic area and the dildo is easier to hold in place.
The corset type can be used just like a normal corset.
The next step is to use the plug style.
The plug type has a plug attached to the body of the strap, and you can use it by inserting the corresponding dildo into the plug.
This is convenient because you can use any dildo that is compatible with the band.
On the other hand, the ring style has a hole in the lower part of the band and you can insert the base of the dildo into the hole.
This is also convenient to use with any dildo that is compatible with the ring style, and is the most common type of strap-on dildo.
The hollow type is a little more special, and this one has a cavity inside the dildo that you can put your penis through.
This type is recommended for use by men.
The type and material of the dildo is also important.
The standard type of dildo is similar to a regular dildo, with a realistic shape, size and texture of the male organ.
The most basic type, the G-spot or prostate specific type is designed specifically for stimulating the female G-spot and male prostate, and has a unique curved shape to stimulate the sexual area.
The vibrating function is unusual, but the electric function allows the dildo to vibrate, making it look like a vibrator.
In addition, the material of the dildo itself can be plastic, latex, rubber or PVC, but basically, choosing latex or rubber can safely enhance the pleasure.
The purpose of a strap-on dildo
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What is the purpose of a strap-on dildo and what is it used for in couples’ sex in the first place?
Some dildos have suction cups on the bottom and can be fixed to a wall and used by moving the hips.
The strap-on dildo was developed from the idea of fixing a dildo to a wall and using it.
Because of this, strap-on dildos were originally a sex toy that was often used by lesbian couples for sex.
However, nowadays, it is also used by straight couples. Let’s delve into the strap-on dildos used by straight people.
There are two main purposes for straight couples to use strap-on dildos.
One is for “anal play” and “penis substitution”. Anal play is basically a part of SM play, where a woman inserts a sex toy or other object into a man’s anus.
Typically, a vibrator or regular dildo is used, but for harder play, a woman will wear a strap-on dildo and insert it into a man’s anus.
This is a great way to enjoy some fiery play, especially if the woman is sadistic and the man is masochistic.
Also, a man may wear a penis band and insert it into a woman’s vagina or anus.
It may seem strange, but if the man is unsure of his own penis or lacks the ability to achieve an erection or sustain an erection, this type of strap-on dildo can be effective.
By using a dildo that is larger than your own penis, you can enjoy a pseudo-big cock, and since the size of the dildo never changes, you can enjoy sex without worrying about a breakage.
In a way, it is a way to use a strap-on dildo as an adjunct to your penis, so to speak.
How to choose when to use a strap-on dildo between straight couples
As mentioned above, there are several different uses for strap-on dildos, but they are both the same in terms of attaching them to the vagina and anus.
Therefore, the usage itself is basically the same for both men and women, but since men and women have different body structures, there are different ways to choose the right one for each.
It is especially important to note that men have penises.
Men will be more comfortable using a strap-on dildo if they choose a type that is basically hollow inside the dildo.
Women’s waists are often narrower than men’s, so you need to make sure that the belt is not too big for them, so you need a medium cost.
Let’s take a closer look at how to choose the right one for each case of men and women wearing a strap-on dildo.
When the man wears it
A strap-on dildo is essentially a couple’s choice, but there is one important point to consider.
That is, if a man is going to wear one, he should choose one with a “hollow” inside of the dildo.
This is because men have a penis to begin with.
If the inside of the dildo is blocked up, there is no place for the penis to go, so you can’t wear a strap-on dildo.
If the inside of the dildo is open, you can wear it with no problem.
As mentioned above, choose a band that has a three-strap or corset-type band.
The two-straps cannot be used by men because the belt will hit the testicles.
As for the size of the dildo, beginners should make sure it’s the same or slightly larger than a man’s penis. If you choose a too large one, it will feel too different from the usual sensation and may be difficult to piston and cause pain for the woman.
Also, choose a soft material such as silicone or latex rather than plastic for the dildo; PVC is also a softer material, but its softness and flexibility are not as good as silicone, and it is not as safe.
Especially for men, it is better to avoid PVC because it will be in direct contact with the penis.
As for the shape, you can choose any shape you like, but until you get used to it, the straight type is better.
When the woman wears it
When a woman wears a dildo, it is mainly inserted into the male’s anus.
Therefore, you need to be careful in choosing the size of the dildo. If it is used by a man against a woman, it can be about the size of a normal penis.
However, men’s anus is not used to inserting anything at all, so choosing a normal sized dildo may cause injury.
Therefore, keep it a little smaller at first and let your anal develop.
It is recommended that you use a three-strap or corset type of belt, as it will be easier to stabilize during insertion.
Avoid two-straps, as the belt can hit your genital area and cause pain and skin irritation.
The dildo itself doesn’t have to have an open cavity inside, so you can choose the one you want.
You should also pay attention to the thickness of the dildo.
Anal is very delicate and vulnerable, so choose one that is slightly thinner than standard.
The shape of the dildo can be chosen according to the couple’s preference, but if you want to make him cum in a dry orgasm, it is recommended that you choose a prostate type one.
It has a unique curved shape, so simply inserting it and making piston movements will stimulate the prostate more and more to increase his pleasure.
Also, make sure that the strap is tight enough because if the belt is too big, the dildo will shift.
How to use a strap-on dildo between straight couples
We’ve looked at how to choose a strap-on dildo for men and women.
However, it is important to practice using them in the right way to actually enhance the pleasure from sex.
After all, the basic use itself is the same between men and women, but the object of insertion is different for each, so it’s important to prepare in the right way beforehand and how to move after insertion.
When a man uses it on a woman, he can move as usual, but if the size of the dildo is large, more careful foreplay is needed than usual.
If a woman is using it on a man, it will be inserted into the anus, so caressing the anus beforehand is essential.
Let’s take a closer look at the proper use of the strap-on dildo in each case where it is worn by a man and a woman.
When a man wears it
When a man wears a strap-on dildo, it will basically be inserted into a woman’s vagina.
Therefore, it’s basically not much different than normal sex.
First, make sure you do some good foreplay.
With strap-on dildo sex, you’re inserting an inorganic dildo rather than a real penis, so it’s safer to caress it more carefully than usual and get your woman plenty wet.
You can put the strap-on dildo on at any time, but it should be put on before insertion to ensure a smooth experience.
Note that your own penis may or may not be erect at the time of insertion.
However, the penis should be neatly stored in the cavity of the dildo.
If you have the three-strap type, you will have to wrap the belt around both legs, so it may take some time to get used to it.
Once the strap is in place, apply a generous amount of lotion to the dildo before inserting it into your vagina.
Basically, it’s okay to insert your own penis as usual, but be careful not to insert it too forcefully with a dildo.
Hold the base of the dildo, adjust the angle, and insert it gently.
The movements after insertion should be slow in the beginning and gradually increase the pace.
A dildo is inorganic and feels different from a real penis.
Move slowly until the woman gets used to it, as moving at a normal pace can cause pain.
Also, as for finishing, if you wear a strap-on dildo all the way from the beginning to the end, you should finish when you are both satisfied.
If the man ejaculates at the end, you will remove the dildo at any given time and attach your own penis.
Either way, it’s important to work on the way you move and the timing to ensure mutual satisfaction.
If you are not confident in your ability to get an erection, don’t worry
The strap-on dildo is a safe sex toy that can be used by men who are not confident in their ability to get an erection.
Men with ED (erectile dysfunction) who find it difficult to get an erection, or men who have a break in the middle of insertion, can use a strap-on dildo to satisfy a woman with sex.
This is because the dildo takes the place of the man’s penis and stimulates the woman.
The dildo is always hard and sleek, so you can keep inserting it forever.
Also, strap-on dildos can create a pseudo-big cock, so even men who are unsure of their size can feel comfortable with them.
Many strap-on dildos have removable dildos, so you can replace many dildos.
This means that you can change the specifications of your penis at will, depending on how you feel at the time.
For example, you can use an average-sized dildo for normal sex, and then use a big dick dildo when you want to do it hard.
However, when using a large size dildo, it is important to take care not to make it hard on the woman.
Trying to insert a dildo that is too large can cause vaginal injury to the woman.
Be sure to apply plenty of lotion and be even more careful than usual with foreplay beforehand to get the vagina used to it.
As long as you pay attention to these points, you can even thrust around until your woman comes inside with a huge cock.
When worn by a woman
When a woman uses a strap-on dildo, she is attacking the man’s anus.
Therefore, how carefully you caress the anus and get it used to is very important to have pleasant sex.
Unlike the vagina, the anus is not a place to insert something into, but it’s more delicate than the vagina.
It’s even more delicate and vulnerable than the vagina, so if you don’t fully loosen the anus, it can cause serious injury.
We recommend that you wash your anus and rectum with an enema or shower before you start anal play.
It is very unhygienic to do anal play without washing, and it can be difficult to concentrate on the play because of dirt.
Once you’ve cleaned your anal area, it’s time to carefully caress it.
First, use your fingers to massage the anal area and gently loosen it up.
The anal area is wrapped with strong muscles, so if you don’t caress it properly, the anal area will be too hard for you to insert the dildo.
Then insert your little finger into the anus to further ease it in.
After inserting it about halfway in and moving your finger back and forth for a while, insert it all the way in and do the same action.
Next, insert your middle finger and caress it in the same way.
If you don’t caress this carefully, anal play can be dangerous.
When you’re ready, put on the strap-on dildo and finally insert it into his anus.
Again, it is important to not move for a while after insertion and wait for the anus to expand to accommodate the dildo, because he may get hurt if you move suddenly.
Pay attention to the size!
If a woman wears a strap-on dildo, she needs to be careful about the size of the belt.
Women have a narrower waist than men, so a strap-on dildo that is the same size as a man’s may not be properly secured.
If the dildo is inadequately secured, the piston movement will be unstable and difficult to move.
Trying to force the piston movement can be dangerous because the dildo can shift in a strange direction and get on his bowel wall.
For this reason, if a woman is wearing a strap-on dildo, she should choose a strap-on that is smaller in size.
Because strap-on dildos were originally sex toys used by lesbian women, there are many sizes available for women.
It’s a good idea to measure your waist size beforehand and then choose one that fits.
It’s also important to check the way the piston movement is performed, which can be difficult to understand when using a strap-on dildo.
Women are not used to inserting and pistoning movements on a regular basis, so it may be difficult to get the hang of how to move them.
Basically, try to follow the way a man swings his hips and still move slowly.
It’s also important to apply plenty of lotion and add more as needed along the way.
Moving back and forth slowly at first will help the anus to get used to it safely.
Gradually increase the pace of your piston movements as the resistance decreases and you will be able to move more smoothly.
When using a strap-on
We’ve looked at how to choose and use strap-on dildos for men and women, but it’s important to note that this is not the only way to enjoy safe sex.
Although a strap-on dildo is a simple sex toy, it is used for genital and anal use and can cause injury or infection if it is not used properly.
Therefore, please pay close attention to the following two points.
- Always use it with lotion.
- Always wash before and after use.
Strap-on dildos must be used in conjunction with lotion.
In particular, if you are going to insert a strap-on dildo into the anus, you should never use it without applying plenty of lotion.
Also, strap-on dildos are inserted into the genitals or anus, so storing them in a dirty state can be very dangerous as they can lead to infection.
Be sure to wash it before and after use and use it in a sanitary manner.
Always use it with lotion
Whenever you insert a strap-on dildo, you must use lotion with it.
This is the same whether the object of insertion is a man or a woman.
Strap-on dildos are mainly made of soft resins, such as silicone or rubber.
However, these materials cause strong friction with the mucous membranes, which can cause pain from friction if inserted as is.
This is especially dangerous when inserted into the anal cavity, where it can damage the anus and rectum.
Anal damage is not only painful, but it can also lead to infection and anal dysfunction.
Lotion is a powerful support for sex with a dildo, preventing such nasty situations.
Lotion is a product used to increase lubrication.
Applying a generous amount of lotion to the dildo or anus before inserting the dildo will reduce friction and allow it to move more smoothly.
However, it’s important to note that the appropriate lotion is different depending on whether you are inserting it into the vagina or the anus.
If you are inserting it into a woman’s vagina, you can basically choose the one that feels good to the woman.
A water base will feel sticky and sticky, an oil base will feel smooth and moist, and a silicone base will feel silky.
On the other hand, if you use a silicone base, it is important to keep it smooth for a long time.
When inserting into a man’s anus, it is recommended to use anal lotion if possible.
Anal lotions contain ingredients that protect the anal and intestinal walls and are designed to prevent stomach upset when used in the intestines.
Regardless of whether you use it for vagina or anal, there are some things to keep in mind when it comes to oil-based or silicone based dildos.
If your dildo is silicone-based, it’s best to avoid using silicone lotions, as they can damage the surface.
If the dildo is fitted with a latex condom, use another type of condom, as applying an oil-based lotion will increase the risk of damaging the condom.
Keep it clean
If you use a strap-on dildo, you need to be very careful about your hygiene.
Since dildos are inserted into the genitals or anus, they are very dirty after use.
If a dildo is left unattended after sex, germs and viruses can grow in abundance.
If you use such a dildo for the next sex, all of them will end up in the vagina or anus.
This can result in the development of “bacterial vaginosis” or inflammatory bowel disease.
This is especially dangerous if a dildo used in the anal area is used in the vagina.
Bacterial vaginosis can lead to inflammation of the uterus if it becomes a serious injury, and in the worst case, it can lead to infertility.
In fact, many infections caused by dildos have been reported, so it is absolutely necessary to keep your dildos clean.
For this reason, you should always wash the dildo after use to rinse off any dirt.
The cleaning process itself is quite simple: simply wash the entire dildo with warm water of around 36 to 38 degrees Celsius and hand soap or soap, and wash the entire dildo.
However, be aware that if the water temperature is too high, such as over 50 degrees Celsius, the resin of the dildo will be damaged.
Also, depending on the material the strap-on dildo is made of, choose a nylon or other material as much as possible, as the belt is difficult to wash, such as leather.
That way, you can wash the whole thing without having to worry about the durability of the strap-on dildo.
However, if you leave the washed dildo wet, it will mold and rust on metal parts such as clasps and rings, so wipe it dry with a towel and let it dry naturally.
Even if you leave it clean after use, it can still get dirty by the time you use it, so it’s even safer if you wash it briefly even just before use.
Summary
In this article, we have explained the features and purpose of strap-on dildos, how to choose and how to use them.
There are many different desires for sex, from women wanting to insert and piston movement like men, to men wanting to be poked by women, etc.
The strap-on dildo we’ve introduced to you can make that happen.
Strap-on dildos can help women grow a penis and attack a man’s anus by thrusting it into his anus, or they can be worn by men with penis problems to help them enjoy exciting sex.
There are many different types of strap-on dildos available.
The three straps, which are secured by three straps, or the corset type, which is wrapped around the waist like a corset, are recommended for stability.
If a man is wearing a dildo, he must choose a type of dildo that has a cavity inside to contain his own penis.
If you want to concentrate on a woman’s G-spot or stimulate a man’s prostate gland to make him come off with a dry orgasm, you should choose a special type of dildo for that purpose.
Note that the material of the dildo should be soft, such as silicone or rubber, and avoid hard materials or PVC.
The use of a strap-on dildo is a little different for men and women.
When used by men, you can basically move as if you were having sex with your own penis, but be careful not to engage in too much foreplay or move too hard.
If a woman is going to use it, it’s important to loosen up the man’s anus and get it ready before inserting it gradually.
Don’t move suddenly and vigorously, but rather let the movement proceed gradually as you get your anus used to it.
The use of lotion and cleaning and drying after sex is essential to the safe use of a strap-on dildo.
Make good use of the strap-on dildo and enjoy stimulating sex.